4 Steps to Creating the Life you Really want to Live

I know you don’t want to settle for less than the great life you deserve, or sit on the sidelines as life passes by…Nobody does – but it happens all the time! As a matter of fact; the biggest regret of the dying is not all the bad things they did do but all the great things they didn’t!

I’m sorry to say, but unfortunately there are no life do-overs. So, don’t waste your precious time living for others, wallowing in the past, or worrying about the future – the life you really want is waiting for you here and now.

If you have some area of your life you’d like to change of improve upon, it’s not as hard as you may think, but it does require these 4 steps that every successful person takes to achieve their goals and create the life of their dreams.

Step 1. Define Your Vision

Your vision represents “the big picture” – the better life you imagine and want to create for yourself. It’s an image of what you want to do, have, or achieve and who you aspire to become. A vision speaks to your soul and brings joy and happiness to your life.

Having a detailed and meaningful vision is essential for keeping you focused and on track in all areas of your life. When your vision is not strongly connected to a clear purpose (your “why”), internal conflicts can arise and trigger sabotaging and counterproductive behaviors. When this happens, you will become frustrated, and lose focus, momentum, and confidence and you’ll eventually abandon your dreams.

When you no longer have a clear direction and purpose you’ll easily get entangled in other’s wants, needs, and dramas and you’ll start depending on others to provide direction for your life…and we don’t want that – it’s your life, you decide!

Step 2. Set Your Goals, Create Your Plan

It’s your vision that inspires you, but it’s your goals and actions that change your life because a great live doesn’t just happen by chance…it happens by choice!

Without a clear direction and targeted action steps you will flounder and waste a lot of time, effort and money chasing things that may bring you immediate satisfaction but will seldom lead to long-term happiness and fulfillment. Having a rock-solid plan will give you direction, focus, and purpose, and achieving your goals will give you confidence, inner strength, and a strong belief in yourself and your abilities.

Step 3. Empower Your Mind

Creating a strong success-conscious mindset is extremely important because what you think, feel, and believe will ultimately determine the direction and quality of your life, and you will have a much better chance at being successful if you have a strong sense of who you are and what you want.

A disempowering mindset will undermine your efforts and you will struggle when faced with stressful situations and challenges and you will fail to see long-term results.

So, if you feel stuck or continually sabotage your efforts to make positive changes, you are being driven by your negative thoughts, beliefs, and perceived limitations instead of using your mind to empower you to go after what you really desire.

Mastering your mind will give you the inner strength to take control of challenging situations, the confidence to make bold decisions, the courage to engage in new ventures, and the knowledge and skills to consistently achieve your goals. Learn more about my Mindset Mastery Program

Step 4. Revitalize Your Health

You can have a crystal-clear vision, a rock-solid plan, and a success-conscious mindset, but it will still be difficult to fully enjoy the life of your dreams with poor health. Revitalizing your health is not only about reducing the risk of disease, enhancing immunity, maintaining healthy weight, or increasing vitality, but also about creating a healthy relationship with nutritious foods, loving yourself and your body, and engaging in self-care activities for enhanced emotional and spiritual health.

One of the ways I see people sabotage their efforts to achieve their wellness goals is that they believe living a healthy lifestyle is difficult, time-consuming, inconvenient, and expensive…It is not! However, it does require valuable tools and effective strategies to make choices that will nourish your body and create vibrant health. That’s where I can help! Learn More about my Health & Wellness Coaching 

You have challenges, I have solutions…Let me help you Empower Your Mind, Revitalize Your Body, & Awaken Your Spirit so you can stop settling and start creating the life you really want live. With the New Year just around the corner, there is no time like the present to make 2020 your best year yet and live the Happy Fit & Healthy life you desire and deserve. Learn about the many ways I can help HERE